Chronicles of Grace

A compilation of stories of God's abounding grace and His everlasting love and faithfulness.

Tuesday, December 26, 2006

BATMAN BEGINS

BATMAN BEGINS

Christmas afternoon became a time of catching up with one of my favorite things to do – watching movies. And this afternoon, HBO showed Batman Begins. What I expected to be a time of mere entertainment became a time of reflection because of what Batman’s friend had said “The real you is what is underneath (referring to the mask). What you do defines you.” It was at this same time that I started reading the book “Overcoming The Dark Side of Leadership” (written Gary McIntosh and Samuel Rina, Sr., originally published by Baker Books).

Each of us have our dark side and it manifests in what we do. There are many times that it manifests itself in pride, selfishness, self-deception and wrong motives.

Pride

Scriptures have so much to say “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.” (Proverbs 11:2) “A man's pride brings him low, but a man of lowly spirit gains honor.” (Proverbs 29:23) Those in position of leadership are very susceptible to pride as power, fame and prosperity can be overwhelming and cloud our minds. Our proud minds tell us that we are better than others and that no one can replace us, we feel indispensable. If our security lies in our prosperity then we will do everything we can to protect whatever we have.

Selfishness

We were all born with a natural bent to gratify ourselves. It starts when we were still babies wherein egocentricity is part of our development. But as we mature we need to grow out of egocentricity and developed the need to serve others. But for many of us, we have not outgrown the stage of self. But the Bible reminds us - “But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such "wisdom" does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. (James 3:14-16) And our attitude should be that of Christ – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. (Philippians 2:3-4)

Self-Deception and Wrong Motives

Even the most well-meaning thoughts and actions can sometime transform into something that the Lord hates. As critically reflect on our actions sometimes we deceive ourselves and our motives become unrighteous. “For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. All these evils come from inside and make a man `unclean.'" (Mark 7:21-22)

As we examine ourselves, we in one way or the other manifest these four “raw materials” of our dark side. As the New Year is just around the corner, ask ourselves “Do our actions define us?” Let us examine ourselves and ask those that are closest to us if we do manifest these and ask the Lord to transform our minds, hearts and lives so we can live in accordance to His glory. This is the best time to start anew and live more peacefully with ourselves and others.

Monday, December 25, 2006

Kindlings from 2006

HOW DO I LOVE THEE, GOD?

Kindling from the Year, 2006

When she was fifteen years old, Elizabeth Barrett suffered a debilitating spinal injury and became partially disabled. Forced to spend much of her time indoors, she read voraciously and grew to become a brilliant scholar and author. When poet Robert Browning wrote to express his admiration for her poems, she began exchanging letters to him. The couple fell in love and married in 1846. Four years later, Elizabeth Barrett Browning wrote one of the exquisite and well-known love poems in the English language. “Sonnet 43” begins:

How do I love thee? Let me count me the ways.

I love to the depth and breath and height

My soul can reach …

Psalm 116 is an extraordinary expression of love – addressed to God. “How do I love Thee, God?” And I find several magnificent truths about God’s goodness and deliverance in my life this 2006.

“I love the Lord because He hears my voice and my supplications, because He has inclined His ear to me, therefore I shall call upon Him as long as I live.” (Psalm 116:1-2) I love the Lord because He bends an ear when I call on Him. I cannot count the ways God has answered my prayers – He has helped a whole lot when I was entrusted to be the team leader of the International Chrysalis Institute – Asia in August, 2006 where there were 40 young leaders came for 5 days in Subic for leadership development. Despite the rains, these leaders still decided to troop to Subic to network and learn from each other. 2006 did not start off the way I envisioned it to be yet the Lord gave me several opportunities to be consultant for several companies and ministries – Nutrinova, Philippines, Inc, ICI Ministries, Asian Theological Seminary-MBA program – as I even continue to be part-time faculty of Alliance Graduate School and mentor for the managers of Seaoil Philippines, Inc. Being part of these companies was a way wherein I can show others that it is possible to be true to God’s principles in doing business and at the same profit. It was also an opportunity to serve the Lord through the workplace ministry of Greenhills Christian Fellowship in Makati. This is also the year where I became involved with the International Christian Chamber of Commerce. The workplace ministry is also my own contribution to national transformation.

“The cords of death encompassed me and the terrors of Sheol came upon me; I found distress and sorrow. Then I called upon the name of the Lord: “O Lord, I beseech You, save my life! Gracious is the Lord and righteous; yes, our God is compassionate. The Lord preserves the simple; I was brought low and He saved me.” (Psalm 116:3-6) Being a consultant, I don’t have a permanent office of my own and I am thankful that every time I travel the Lord has been my source of safety and security. This year, Mindanao has been a hub for me. I made several trips to Davao City to attend/ speak in seminars. The most significant trip was my visit to a plantation in the middle of Lanao del Sur for exploratory talks for Organization Development of the company. It was one of the interesting travels I had. We flew in from Cotobato and flew out of Cagayan de Oro. Other out of town trips were courtesy of the Assemblies of God denomination which invited me to speak before their pastors in Bacolod City and to the denomination young professionals’ fellowship in Baguio City.

“What shall I render to the Lord for all His benefits toward me?” (Psalm 116:12)

* “I shall lift up the cup of salvation and call upon the name of the Lord.” (Psalm 116:13) Why do I lift my cup on high? In order to publicly praise God and announce His anointing. In 2007, I shall be involved with the ministry called Christ@Work, a ministry dedicated to share Christ among business owners and executives. I am committing myself to continually share my faith with those in the workplace and the value of imploring biblical principles in their work practices.

* “I shall pay my vows to the Lord, oh may it be in the presence of all His people.” (Psalm 116:14) I pray that every time I meet people they see Christ in me – a life living in praise and thanksgiving to Him whether in times of pain or joy. Evangelism has been a passion for me and I have placed it as one of my core values. May God find me faithful as I desire to be a witness for Him both in practice and in proclamation through the days of my life.

* “To You I shall offer a sacrifice of thanksgiving, and call upon the name of the Lord.” (Psalm 116:17) In all these, I want to let you know how thankful I am to the Lord for all His provisions and the many, many ways He has been good to me. He has provided for all my needs especially spiritually and emotionally. I cannot repay God enough for what He did in my life whoever I am right now is because of His grace. What can I do to show my love for Him? By sharing His goodness with others. I am praying that the year 2007 will be a year wherein I will be given the opportunity, the courage and the strength to share blessings with others especially those in the workplace.

Please pray for me as I continue to carry out God’s purposes in my life – teaching, leading and networking with people. May I always live a life of worship and thanksgiving to the Lord.

All because of God’s grace,

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Friday, December 22, 2006

Christmas Greetings

LET US LIVE CHRISTMAS EVERY DAY

Christmas is more than a day at the end of the year,
More than a season of joy and good cheer,
Christmas is really God’s pattern is living
To be followed all year by unselfish giving …
For the holiday season awakens good cheer
And draws us closer to those we hold dear,
And we open our hearts and find it is GOOD
To live among men as WE ALWAYS SHOULD …
But as soon as the tinsel is stripped from the tree
The Spirit of Christmas fades silently
Into the background of daily routine
And is lost in the whirl of life’s busy scene,
And all unawares we miss and forego
The greatest blessing that mankind can know …
For if we lived Christmas each day as we should,
And made it our aim to always do good,
We’d find the lost key to meaningful living
That comes not from GETTING, but from unselfish GIVING …
And we’d know the great joy of PEACE UPON EARTH
Which was the real purpose of our Savior’s birth,
For in the GLAD TIDINGS of the first Christmas Night,
God showed us THE WAY AND THE TRUTH AND THE LIGHT!
Helen Steiner Rice


“But the truth of the Spirit in love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no Law. Galatians 5:22,23

Dear Friends,

May you all have a blessed Christmas and a peaceful and joyful New Year. Thank you so much for your love and support in my ministry.

Grace


Friday, November 03, 2006

Who Are The Young Workers of Today?

November begins a month long journey for me. The first of all events is being a speaker at the 2nd Work in Progress Conference of the Young Adults Ministry of the Philippine General Council of the Assemblies of God in Baguio City.

This has been a long awaited invitation for me as I enjoy being with the young adults – the Generation X. Who is the Generation X worker and what do they need and want. It is important to know who this generation is in order we can create more effective and need based ministries for them that will not just help them in their spiritual lives but in the workplace as well.

1. A Sense of Belongingness and Teamwork - Generation X employees value a sense of belonging and teamwork and this value was shaped by the way Xers are raised. Most of the generation X grew up in single parents’ homes – some belonging to OFW families and others have their separated parents or both parents worked outside the home. Therefore most of them spent their childhood with babysitters or relatives. These environmental factors developed within Xers a strong sense of individualism, but they also created a deep hunger for relationships. Although it may seem inconsistent in light of Xers' willingness to leave organizations to capitalize on job opportunities elsewhere, the upbringing of Xers has actually created a desire for a sense of belonging through lasting relationships. Specifically, Xers seek to build relationships with people in the workplace who they perceive to have wisdom and experience. What, then, do Generation X employees want from their jobs with regard to a sense of belonging? Generation X employees want to have relationships with mentors. Specifically, Xers want mentors and leaders who lead by example. They are unimpressed by authority and they are drawn to managers who earn their respect by walking their talk rather than managers who believe they deserve respect by virtue of their title. Generation X employees also want to feel as though they are part of an overall mission to which they can make meaningful contributions. Managers can affect this by involving them in decision making, respecting their opinions, appreciating what Xers have to offer and communicating with them in a more interactive versus authoritarian manner. Further, managers who share as much information as possible with their Xer employees, rather than hiding or hoarding such information, will benefit from Xers' ability to synthesize massive amounts of information from diverse sources in order to devise creative solutions to business problems. As far as teamwork, Generation X employees do want group affiliation. While they do not seek the prestige of belonging to any given group like their Boomer predecessors, they do seek to identify with individual members of their teams. For this reason, Xers want leaders who understand their talents and who work to integrate them into teams by linking their individual talents to team initiatives.

2. The Ability to Learn New Things -Generation X employees value the ability to learn new things. They demand constant learning experiences to develop their skill sets and to maintain their marketability. The more organizations invest in training and development opportunities for Xers, the more they will capture Xers' hearts, generate loyalty and commitment and positively affect retention rates through increased job satisfaction. In fact, in a study made involving Generation X consulting engineers reveals that Xers, at least early in their careers, believe that professional development is more important than salary. Even more noteworthy, perhaps, is that Xers will override their fundamental desire for work-life balance to work beyond the hours established for their job if the projects requiring overtime enhance their learning opportunities or provide them with meaningful experience. So, what do Generation X employees specifically want in their jobs in terms of learning new things? Xers want company-sponsored training opportunities; they view such ongoing opportunities as crucial to their career advancement. The training programs that are most appealing to Xers are those that allow them to resolve problems during breakout sessions, include fun activities and provide sufficient time for questions and answers. Xers also expect the trainers to display expertise on the topics they are training. Generation X employees also want their jobs to include a variety of assignments because it provides them with the opportunity to learn new skills. A limited variety of activities represents potential for boredom and a lack of learning and advancement. A broad variety of assignments, on the other hand, are more likely to create natural learning opportunities for Xers by virtue of real problems with actual situations. Learning from real situations, or action learning, is the preferred learning style of Xers.

3. Autonomy and Entrepreneurship
Generation X employees value autonomy and entrepreneurship. It is important to Xers to maintain personal freedom and individuality as employees. This freedom, like the ability to learn new things, is an employment condition that is more important to Xers than money. What job characteristics represent the autonomy that Generation X employees seek? Their upbringing has lent to an independent nature and, thus, they want the freedom to govern themselves. Xers want leaders who honor their independence by granting them day-to-day autonomy and giving them creative responsibility so that they can address problems on their own terms because they are used to solving their own problems. Additionally, they prefer to organize their work on their own and are willing to accept the risks of operating independently. Xers have a strong need to exercise their independence and individualism, and they shun arbitrary displays of authority. Although they expect leaders to set specific goals for them, Xers do not want to be micro-managed. They want to manage the processes associated with achieving the set goals. They want to set their own priorities, make decisions and even make their own mistakes. Finally, Generation X employees want to manage their careers like entrepreneurs. They want to choose distinct career paths for themselves; they do not want employers to choose their paths for them. Xers believe that they need to move from company to company to enhance their marketability and continue their development, and they do not want their mobility to be limited.

4. Security - Generation X employees value security. Security, however, does not mean the same thing to a Xer as it does to a Boomer. Xers do not believe in the idea of job security like their predecessors who believe that security equates to longevity in their jobs. Xers define security by the quantity and quality of their skills. So, although they do not expect to build job security, they do want to build career security through the acquisition of marketable skills and experience. What, then, do Generation X employees want from their jobs in terms of security? Xers want opportunities to develop their skills and gain valuable experience, so the work and the work environment should support continuous learning through such things as training programs, job rotation programs, dynamic career paths and exposure to a variety of projects. Additionally, Xers want to cultivate relationships with mentors who lead by example and from whom they can learn. Ironically, by offering such learning opportunities to Xer employees, increasing their sense of career security and helping them to prepare for the job market, organizations increase the likelihood that Xers will want to stay with them.

5. Flexibility - Generation X employees value flexibility within their jobs and the flexibility to move between jobs. Within their jobs, Xers want flexible working hours that they can set for themselves and flexible working arrangements such as telecommuting and unique schedules, as well as time off for community service and activities outside of work. They also expect flexibility versus prescriptive direction from their leaders, allowing them to multi-task and manage their own work their own way. Generation X employees also want the ability to move freely between jobs, which they usually do after about three years on the job. Boomers, who think of long-term employment as lifetime employment, view Xers attitude about job mobility as disloyal while Xers simply call it flexibility. Xers witnessed their parents' loyalty being disregarded during the downsizing of the 1990s, and they developed a realistic view of their loyalty versus an organization's bottom line. They view jobs as means to obtain the resources they need to live, and will take jobs with different organizations if current positions do not allow for the work-life balance they desire. Additionally, Xers will seek employment elsewhere if they are unable to move up within an organization - a phenomenon becoming more and more common. Xers are outnumbered by Boomers in the workplace at a ratio of almost two to one because Boomers are choosing not to retire. This blocks Xers from advancing even if their performance warrants it, causing them to move to other organizations

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

Trust Prevails

We walk by faith not by sight. This is the kind of faith Abraham demonstrated and it pleased God. But faith must be tested, forging our character adn refining our trust to prepare us for the day when our faith will become sight.

Several times Abraham was tested. First, when he was told to leave Ur. At 75, he gathered all his belongings and went to unfamiliar frontier-the land God promised. Second, he separated with his nephew, Lot to avoid further strife. Third, he relinquished his plans for his eldest son, Ishmael. Despite his deep love for Ishmael, he had to determine to follow God. Fourth, his faith was again tested and confirmed with his willingess to sacrifice his one and only son, Isaac. What we can learn from Abraham's faith is stated in the following poem:

One by one He took them from me.
All the things I valued most,
Until I was empty-handed;
Every glittering toy was lost.
And I walked earth's highways, grieving,
In my rags and poverty;
Till I heard His voice inviting me,
"Lift your empty hands to Me!"
So I held my hadns toward Heaven,
And He filled them with a store
Of His own transcendent riches
Till they could contain no more.
And at last I comprehended
With my stupid mind and dull,
That God could not pour his riches
Into hands already full?
We have "security blankets" in life - things and relationships that provide for us a sense of security and steadiness but these are the very things that keep us from fully trusting in the Lord. But we need to give up this security in order to allow God to do what He does best and that is to provide for us in times of crisis. God's plan is always full of wisdom and truth. If things cannot make sense, all we have to do is to trust His heart.

Tuesday, October 03, 2006

"Show Me The Gospel"

Lanao del Sur, Autonomous Region for Muslim Mindanao, Philippines – Traveling 2 hours north of Cotobato City, some thoughts are running through my mind as what I will end up with in this small municipality. We were met in Cotobato City airport by a group of men in 4x4 vehicles who came from the estate where we have a business meeting with the owners of a plantation in the area. The place is so remote that a 4x4 vehicle is the most suitable piece of equipment. There are public jeepneys that ply through the area and dozens of Philippine Marines checkpoints. Its an adventure in itself!

Then at the last end of our trip is a military detachment and a most unlikely steel bridge going to the plantation of 3,500 hectares of cassava and natural/ organic tropical fruit trees. In the midst of virgin forest and huge plantation, there stood a compound that reminds me of Baguio City of old. It is like a small American town in the 1940’s. It is the compound of almost 600 Christian and Muslim workers employed by one of the largest producers of cassava starch in the country. It is almost of complete town in itself. There are housing projects for all workers, a preschool, primary and secondary school, a hospital and a commissary that makes their own organic bread and ice-cream, jams and other kinds of produce. It also has other grocery items and school supplies. It is powered by its own hydroelectric plant and has its own water plant. It is a self-sustained community. The owners, devout Christians, have also feeding centers for the malnourished children in the community especially the for Muslim community nearby. The school can be considered one of the best in the country with 98% success rate in college entrance exams in nearby private colleges and universities. Compared to the public school, each class has only 25 students maximum, has a computer room and a library. I never really imagined that in such a remote area there is a little piece of paradise.

The land is so rich and they have found out that Bible commands regarding planting can be scientifically true. Example are of which is they lay some of the land unplanted every 7 years so that the land will have time to self-nourish itself (Lev. 25:1-4). We visited the fruit trees that are organically grown. We tasted the fresh coconut that has pandan flavor in it. We interviewed people from different faiths and how they appreciate being able to be given employment opportunity despite their differences in faith.

Many times, I reflected on the how I can “show” the gospel to those who see the divine in a different way. And what I saw is exactly what I was looking for. This is a place that has become a beacon of light in this region. People in this area are professionals but they have chosen to live here because this is where they get their source of income and sense of fulfillment. In a place like this wherein you have all you need, who needs to live in a concrete jungle with all the stress and pressures that are most of the time unnecessary or are caused by external environment. This place is paradise – fresh, naturally grown produce, fresh air, fresh spring water and a wonderful view of the ocean. My task is to create this into a healthy organization and to make the company sustain all its efforts for the community. Its desire is to serve the community by providing employment and a uplift their plight. The best way to “demonstrate” the gospel without necessarily “preaching” it.

Monday, September 25, 2006

A Taste of Heaven

Its amazing how under God’s leadership we are one and God’s leadership principles cuts across denominations, economic status, profession, regions, age and even language. Who have ever thought that a Baptist will teach a group of Pentecostal pastors on principles of leadership. Some thoughts on the Leaders Empowering Emerging Leaders Seminar conducted at Bacolod City with the Pentecostal pastors in Negros Occidental district.

Again and again, leadership is relational. If leadership should be transformational then leaders should develop relational skills. Leaders who want to mentor other leaders should relate, understand their uniqueness and develop them in accordance to what God hopes them to be.
Leadership is not about “me” but its about others. Confirming again and again what has been a new paradigm of leadership for me, its always about others. Its not about our agenda, it is always about the other’s agenda.
Leadership is about the God’s kingdom. God’s kingdom is boundaryless. It is not found in “our church”, “our denomination” but it is bigger than we thought it is. God’s children are all over the world, they can be found everywhere. The world does not move around us, it moves around us and others. The ministry is not ours, it is God’s. He owns it we are just his stewards which means He decides whether we will continue with our tenure or not. Ministry is not also for ours to keep, it is for us to take care of.
Leadership is not about managerial skills but it is the ability to motivate people to a direction that God has intended them to be. To help them uncover what God’s purposes in their life is and make them believe that they are able and capable of achieving God’s purposes in their lives. That God has greater purposes for them than what they are experiencing now. They need to be encouraged to think of a better tomorrow for themselves and for others.

Now I can say to myself, I have tasted heaven. This is true unity in Christ. We are one and we must unite with each other and keep the bond of peace.