BATMAN BEGINS
BATMAN BEGINS
Christmas afternoon became a time of catching up with one of my favorite things to do – watching movies. And this afternoon, HBO showed Batman Begins. What I expected to be a time of mere entertainment became a time of reflection because of what Batman’s friend had said “The real you is what is underneath (referring to the mask). What you do defines you.” It was at this same time that I started reading the book “Overcoming The Dark Side of Leadership” (written Gary McIntosh and Samuel Rina, Sr., originally published by Baker Books).
Each of us have our dark side and it manifests in what we do. There are many times that it manifests itself in pride, selfishness, self-deception and wrong motives.
Pride
Scriptures have so much to say “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.” (Proverbs 11:2) “A man's pride brings him low, but a man of lowly spirit gains honor.” (Proverbs 29:23) Those in position of leadership are very susceptible to pride as power, fame and prosperity can be overwhelming and cloud our minds. Our proud minds tell us that we are better than others and that no one can replace us, we feel indispensable. If our security lies in our prosperity then we will do everything we can to protect whatever we have.
Selfishness
We were all born with a natural bent to gratify ourselves. It starts when we were still babies wherein egocentricity is part of our development. But as we mature we need to grow out of egocentricity and developed the need to serve others. But for many of us, we have not outgrown the stage of self. But the Bible reminds us - “But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such "wisdom" does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice. (James 3:14-16) And our attitude should be that of Christ – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. (Philippians 2:3-4)
Self-Deception and Wrong Motives
Even the most well-meaning thoughts and actions can sometime transform into something that the Lord hates. As critically reflect on our actions sometimes we deceive ourselves and our motives become unrighteous. “For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. All these evils come from inside and make a man `unclean.'" (Mark 7:21-22)
As we examine ourselves, we in one way or the other manifest these four “raw materials” of our dark side. As the New Year is just around the corner, ask ourselves “Do our actions define us?” Let us examine ourselves and ask those that are closest to us if we do manifest these and ask the Lord to transform our minds, hearts and lives so we can live in accordance to His glory. This is the best time to start anew and live more peacefully with ourselves and others.
